Friday, April 3, 2009
Love
Boys used to be the last thing on my mind. I'm not a "mushy" type at all. I'm not the type that is anti love either though. Some people hate when they see couples showing PDA (public display of affection) but I don't care. Couples can do what they want. A lot of people also are jealous of relationships. I wasn't jealous nor cared about others business. I don't care for roses and chocolate and being taken out for dinner. I like to pay for my part of the meal and my movie ticket. I don't need to be pampered and very low maintenance. The only thing that I can be high maintenance about is that I have to feel like I am cared about. I have to have a good night call every night and I have to be seen when possible. Sex is not a big thing to me either. I think that is the bases of a lot of people relationships. In my opinion, I think that is lust not love. Love is being able to just enjoy each others company no matter what you are doing. I enjoy just sitting on the couch talking about random things through out the day much more then receiving material things. Money is not an issue to me at this point in time. I hate when girls are so angry just because they didn't get what they wanted for Valentines Day. Get a life. Don't spend so much time building up anger. Use that time to enjoy each others company and laugh about nothing. Even though I have never been the relationship type, I believe my relationship with my boyfriend is going just fine even though he doesn't have the money to pick me up and take me out. He doesn't even have a car for that matter anymore. That's not his fault that his family is not wealthy. He makes me happy and that bothers me that girls can get mad about something as petty as money. All I care about is if he proves that he cares and can make me happy. He makes me laugh and smile constantly and that is why I feel that I love him.
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well that's what they call liberated women. LOL.
ReplyDeleteI kind of feel the same about love, I think you said it all. Nice post.
Good for you Alley! ~Ms. A
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